Round Table
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Bev Sartain posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Posted Worthiness Is Within below for anyone having trouble accessing it from the Library. We are going to be adding courses and challenges over the next 2-3 months and there may be glitches so feel free to let me know. I appreciate your help and patience!
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Bev Sartain posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Week #1 Video – https://s3.amazonaws.com/recoverylifemanagement/WWE1.mp4
Week #1 Exercise – https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdS5cdbl2XgxqvIwcpPLft-fOLWyFfLklOSHp9VbYDH7P2A4Q/viewform
Week #2 Video – https://s3.amazonaws.com/recoverylifemanagement/WWE2.mp4
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Bev Sartain posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Been busy with a free challenge I’m doing in Lifework Launchers this week. Got your messages and will be working on getting you access and checking on the last call. I’ll have some answers for you in the next few days. Dropped my computer on Thanksgiving and got a new one a few days back. Love seeing your engagement here with one another. Was just…[Read more]
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Tami Coil posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Grateful to be able to give birth to these emotions so that the new thing that is coming can be born. I realized that these emotions I have been having are like contractions of the “new thing” that is to be birthed. So very exciting. I am being intentional with what wants to come forth for this next season while I am dealing with this sup…[Read more]
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Jane Cornelius posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Hey Bev, I was listening to the last call and it seemed like it cutoff early? Is there a 2nd part or was that the whole thing?
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Karen Haradem posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
I was listening to a podcast today entitled “Conscious Capitalism,” and the man speaking in the podcast mentioned that his mother would always let him know how disappointed she was in him that he did not pursue his college degree and instead pursued a job at Whole Foods to follow his passion of starting a co-op. He said he knew his mother tho…[Read more]
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Was he happy that he pursued the his passion to start a co-op? I am trying to understand the “pride” part. This reminds me of wearing the cloak of a parent. Not what the child wants but what the parent wants. Patriarchy comes to mind. Not in the sense of male/female but a disconnect from self, emotions, nature and voice. When I worked at my kids…[Read more]
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Exactly, Tami. You stated it perfectly. That’s how I feel. As a child, I have disappointments also, but I don’t put those on my parents. I know my happiness is my responsibility, and I respect them and their choices and values, even though they do not align with my own. For me, this has involved deep grief, but has also brought tremendous gro…[Read more]
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I do too. I was just crying this morning as I was writing my morning pages. The longest relationship in this world that I will have is with myself and its about high time that I honor that. That includes letting myself cry and knowing what is behind the tears, so I can release them. You state it so beautifully, it is Okay because those feelings…[Read more]
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Wes Richards posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
I’m becoming aware today that my energy is lower than it has been recently. This awareness came about from noticing a stronger than usual tendency to want to follow negative thought patterns which before I may have attributed to a bad mood or outer circumstances rather than energy. Its encouraging because I’m recognizing that its energy and t…[Read more]
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And specifically when I refer to energy, I was recalling our brief discussion at the beginning of one of our recent group calls, Bev, about certain days being, and I’m butchering badly your message probably, but certain days being lower energy for some people depending on their astrological sign, or something like that? Anyway, made me think that…[Read more]
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Wes, I am a believer of astrological movement affecting energy but I don’t fully understand it, YET. In therapy yesterday, we talked about moving energy through emotional process. She posed the question of what replenishes me and what is depleting. Asking me to be mindful of my thoughts. Something to play around with in my toolbox. Living out…[Read more]
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That’s great!
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Tami Coil posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Bev, When I try to access the Worthiness is Within class it pops me right back to the main page. I tried to get into week one and week two. Can you check to see if this is just me ?
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I’m able to get in using my phone, if that helps. Can’t access the lab at all on a computer to try there (no idea what my password is, luckily my phone keeps me logged in)
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Thanks Wes, I will try with my iPad/iphone. It could be user error!!!:)
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Good luck!
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I just checked and they came up for me. I will copy the list and send to you on Sunday. That way you have it.
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I will ask my support team to take a look.
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Tami Coil posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
I am curious to know if the worthiness worksheets are in the Lab. I am desiring to go back and revisit them. I know that I complete 2 worksheets and I am wondering if there are more. Thanks!
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Wes Richards posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Scrolling through Facebook the other day, I noticed a post advertising a local business called Eleven Eleven Holistic CommUNITY Collective. I’d “like”d this business’ page on fb months ago because a life coach friend of mine liked it and had mentioned it to my wife or something, can’t recall, but I honestly thought it was a meditation group in…[Read more]
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I love your mantra and your courage to share your gifts. Your depth and wisdom is something our world needs. May be it unto you …..as the universe directs.
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This is freakin’ AWESOME! You let Spirit lead! Let it go and keep taking action like this.
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That is awesome, Wes!
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Thanks guys. I’m also making this one of my 3 ways I can engage my life lesson in a healthy way to actually work on completion (as part of step 5 on the finishing unfinished business process).
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Karen Haradem posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Hi everyone…just a shout out to all of you to say thank you for making this a safe, non-judgment free zone for us to share our process. Unfortunately, it seems very hard to find these days, but I appreciate so much that I can find it here. It’s so very important!
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Wes Richards posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Was gonna check in here and declare that I love who I’m becoming. Then realized who I’m becoming was who I already am….semantics really. Still stands though.
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Wonderful. Keep declaring and owning your truth!
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Wes, Declare Away. We are here to witness and hold your truth up with you. I am in a season of shifting and although its scary, I am claiming my Divine Truth FIRST. This is a practice and I am feeling the benefits of truth telling to myself. It really is an inside job.
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Bev Sartain posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Replay of our call: https://s3.amazonaws.com/recoverylifemanagement/RLLNovember218.mp4
Thank you Karen and Wes for your connection and talking about family dynamics. We are all moving through these relationships to the best of our ability. I think we are doing pretty great if you ask me?!-
Glad we talked about this. It wasn’t high on my radar going into the call but I’ve also, since the call, realized where I’ve been avoidant in this area and some opportunities that may exist here to express authentically and possibly to be of service as well. Contacted my cousin again last night and it felt particularly vulnerable sharing with…[Read more]
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Yes you are! So happy to hear you acknowledge yourself.
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Karen Haradem posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
One thing I didn’t mention in the call but is something that relates to our topic, is a biopsy I have scheduled for the day after Christmas. When my Dr. first called me, I wanted to know everything. She suggested not to go on the internet, but I know myself well enough and have the awareness now to know what I need in order to move through this e…[Read more]
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So admire your knowledge of yourself and your intuition Karen. Supporting you in being more and more at peace.
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Thank you, Wes!
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I continue to love hearing you step into your own. It’s fantastic. Love how you aren’t picking up other people’s projections anymore or as much. We are here to support you so know you can share as little or as much as you like. Giving you a great big virtual hug, if you are okay with hugs, lol!
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Yes…lol…I will take a hug! Thank you.
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Karen, I am glad that you say “I choose to handle it this way”. Feels like self trust as you navigate your health care. Sending prayers as you care for you.
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Thank you, Tami!
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Wes Richards posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
I came into the call with a sense of disappointment in my own process. Didn’t bring it up during the call at all but that was what I was feeling going in and actually for the last few days as well.
Old mechanisms came up during the call and I’m recognizing I’m currently in the grips of so many of these right now. Grateful for this awa…[Read more]-
Wes, I find your “nonsensical novels” to be very helpful. I struggle every day with even speaking at all because I don’t feel worth the space I take up on the earth, even though I know thatwhat I have to say is valuable and worthwhile, and it is okay for me to take up that space. Not sure if you can relate, but please know you are seen and heard…[Read more]
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I can only truly speak through writing. Speaking on the call today was full of self judgment for me. Pausing too much, going off on tangents, not making sense, fidgeting, looking at myself in the camera then away then at it then away again, stuttering (even if mostly only mentally)… gonna say some self forgiveness/truth statements for all of t…[Read more]
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Also seems like a lot of opportunity to love and accept yourself. Still feel like you are avoiding that work and practice and that seems to keep you in this space of judging yourself. What are your thoughts?
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Very true. I have no shortage of opportunities to love and accept myself. And instead of using them for that, I’m still more attached to using them to defend my ego, even while (here’s that theme of paradox again) I literally want to destroy my ego. The answer here is to both stop defending or destroying it. Love and acceptance for myself can…[Read more]
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Having compassion for it doesn’t mean you are identifying with it unless you say it does. You “destroy” the ego through love. If that’s the way you want to look at it. I like to look at it as lessening it and strengthening my connection to Source and intuition. Great acknowledigng here.
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I can relate!
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I LOVE reading what you write. It’s part of your expression. I think we get to a point in our process where we get tired of expressing our ego’s fear. That may be happening for you. So use the vulnerability that’s coming up in your intuition and go underneath the vulnerability to see what wants to be expressed. Great insight is that it’s not your…[Read more]
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I connect more with spirit when I write, and ego when I speak. What needs to be expressed for or through me is all the things I write but through my voice, or even through writing with others that don’t feel as safe. I want to literally be standing in my truth, and that happens when I can speak without fear. My old story is feeling not…[Read more]
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Huge realization…spirit = write and ego = speak.
You aren’t going to speak without fear when you start. You are going to have to speak regardless of the fear so you can share truth and your light. How come you can allow all those things when you write but you have all those judgments about speaking. Doesn’t really make sense, does it? Wondering…[Read more]-
Exactly! It’ll deal. Some of the ways it hasn’t been dealing: I still experience fear about speaking on the group calls in front of you guys. I’m nervous just answering you when you ask how I’m doing at the beginning of calls. I always find myself somewhere between desperately wanting to share on camera with the group and wanting to obs…[Read more]
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Karen Haradem posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
My biggest takeaway from the call today was realizing that a lot of the reason I’m not opening my heart is because I’m afraid of the unknown, not being accepted, hearing things I don’t want to hear, and not being in control of the outcome. I know that wasn’t something that we discussed in detail, but as I was reading the worksheet and Bev was…[Read more]
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Ooooh, nice “a heart doesn’t open to a heart that isn’t open in return”. Not sure if that’s a common phrase but I know I’ve never heard it before. Totally lands with me though. I 100% hide behind that excuse. Karen, I so appreciate your process and your awareness, your vulnerability and willingness to share. And I resonate with so much of it…[Read more]
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You are welcome!
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This is exactly what the worksheet requested…that you allow and receive any messages that stand in the way of living with an open heart for yourself. Really good allowing, receiving and listening. You are a natural!
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Bev Sartain posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Worksheet for our call:
https://s3.amazonaws.com/recoverylifemanagement/Receiving+Feedback.pdf
Call today at 1pm PST/4pm EST at Join URL: https://zoom.us/j/577120726 -
Jane Cornelius posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
I’m loving this month’s work. Bringing up healing vs coping helped me have a big awareness of when I’m in a healing space vs when I’m coping. I can tell when I’m actively engaged in process and using the tools we’ve been given I am on a healing path, and when I am not, I am coping. And there’s a time for both. I have picked up some good coping…[Read more]
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When one of us heals, we all heal. I love that you can stay curious while you work on clearing some of the old misunderstandings. You can heal yourself around this situation with your dad whether you have a relationship with him or not. My dad had passed when I heal my relationship with him which was incredible and completely life-altering. I…[Read more]
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Bev Sartain posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
I’ve been exploring bigger vision for myself. It seems I have outgrown my coaching business and am on to a bigger vision now. I’ve been writing about it the last few days and just being with what is coming through me to be expressed. “The Science of Getting Rich” was recommended to me so I went and got it and finished it. Super short book and easy…[Read more]
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Karen Haradem posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
I’m caught up on the most recent calls and the last week of the worthiness calls. So, the first call about unfinished business was a lot of information. I will need some time to think more about my unfinished business. I know that I can “feel” some unfinished business in my life, especially the last year, yet I also know that I am healing and…[Read more]
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Thank you for sharing yourself here. When I read about your confusion, something popped up around witnessing if it’s your sadness and grief or someone else’s. I picked up that you may be picking up other people’s emotions and carrying the burden for them. Not sure if that resonates, just thought I would mention it if it’s worth exploring for…[Read more]
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Thanks, Bev. The call was so helpful.
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Supporting you through your discovering, Karen!
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Thank you, Jane! Sending that support right back at ya.
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Thank you! I tried to get in and it kept popping me out. I met with a group of ladies to release ties and self forgiveness yesterday. I realized that I was redirected to self forgiveness and it exactly where I was learn. Thank you for all you are offering. It is bread for this hungry lady.
I’m glad you want to eat it up but sounds like there continues to be an issue. I know that’s frustrating. What are you getting popped out of? The links I shared or the site as a whole?
I almost sent you a video. I go to the library>worthiness within-all fine to that point and when I click on Day One. I am right back to the main page that shows my profile and the 4 selections of what group to enter into-RLL. I also think that others should test it because it could be me. I had this once before. I sent a support request in case I…[Read more]