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Jane Cornelius posted an update 6 years, 6 months ago
When I listened to the last call about unfinished business I knew exactly what I need to complete, but it feels so big. And I know Bev said it doesn’t matter big or small, but I thought of all the other unfinished business things I could work on like procrastination, ending a unhealthy relationship with my ex-boyfriend, my food behaviors…etc. but reading the purposes below, I know I need to heal/complete never having known my father. It just makes sense that as an adult I am now responsible for healing that pain and the stories I’ve told myself around it. That all of the thoughts and feelings I had growing up around not having a father or ever meeting him are no longer serving me as an adult (and haven’t for a long long time). As I work on the Worthiness is Within course I’ve been uncovering that I have a deep sense of unworthiness related to my father never finding me and shame around not being able to talk about it and that I’ve used a lot of destructive behaviors to bury that pain, so I know this is the root cause of my addictions. Tomorrow is my 43rd birthday and I don’t want this story about my father to continue to drive the rest of my life. I want to complete this once and for all. I just don’t know if it’s possible, how to do it, where to start, etc..but I’m willing to go there and give it a shot.
1. To take responsibility for your own healing.
2. Provides an opportunity to release thoughts and feelings that don’t serve you
anymore.
3. Provides opportunity to complete root cause of destructive behaviors.
4. To complete something once and for all
Great awareness that you know exactly what needs to be resolved! If this is what you decide to do, we’re all here to support you in resolving it. Know you can do it. And have an awesome birthday (turning 43 this year too)!
Thank you Wes! Your support means a lot! Here’s to 43 being our best year yet 😉
Happy birthday Jane! And how powerful is it that this awareness is coming in on your birthday. Wow! I get that this feels big and I also see how it leads into the other unfinished business you have so this seems like an empowering issue to resolve for your soul. We can take this one small step at a time. This may be a similar process that I discussed with Wes of you as the adult, comforting the child that felt (whatever she felt). It’s a process of going back to your younger one and just listening to her hurts. You don’t have to do anything but love and comfort her. You can listen to a meditation and meet her through that. You could write her a letter and have her write you one back. You could start to read a book about your Inner Child. There’s different ways to go about it. All right, none wrong. Just start where you can. Supporting you all the way.
Thanks Bev! Yes, the timing around my birthday is clearly no coincidence! Thank you for the coaching on ways to start/continue this process…I am going to practice the meditation Wes shared and look for a book about my inner child too and see where the Universe guides me from there. So grateful for the gift of this space you’ve given us and the wonderful people within 🙂
You are loved and supported and ready to heal your Inner Child. Holding her tight!
Jane, I am glad you are here and celebrating another year around the sun. Happy 43. I admire your courage and desire for wholeness. I stand with you as you look toward this little one that has carried a big load of abandonment. Simply with you in this outer circle as you examine what is in your inner circle. Sending love…..
Thank you Tami, receiving the love <3