Karen Haradem
@kalyhaatt-net
Active 2 months, 3 weeks ago-
Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
Thank you, Tami!
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
I can relate!
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
Yes…lol…I will take a hug! Thank you.
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
Thank you, Wes!
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Karen Haradem posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
One thing I didn’t mention in the call but is something that relates to our topic, is a biopsy I have scheduled for the day after Christmas. When my Dr. first called me, I wanted to know everything. She suggested not to go on the internet, but I know myself well enough and have the awareness now to know what I need in order to move through this e…[Read more]
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
You are welcome!
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
Wes, I find your “nonsensical novels” to be very helpful. I struggle every day with even speaking at all because I don’t feel worth the space I take up on the earth, even though I know thatwhat I have to say is valuable and worthwhile, and it is okay for me to take up that space. Not sure if you can relate, but please know you are seen and heard…[Read more]
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I can only truly speak through writing. Speaking on the call today was full of self judgment for me. Pausing too much, going off on tangents, not making sense, fidgeting, looking at myself in the camera then away then at it then away again, stuttering (even if mostly only mentally)… gonna say some self forgiveness/truth statements for all of t…[Read more]
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Also seems like a lot of opportunity to love and accept yourself. Still feel like you are avoiding that work and practice and that seems to keep you in this space of judging yourself. What are your thoughts?
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Very true. I have no shortage of opportunities to love and accept myself. And instead of using them for that, I’m still more attached to using them to defend my ego, even while (here’s that theme of paradox again) I literally want to destroy my ego. The answer here is to both stop defending or destroying it. Love and acceptance for myself can…[Read more]
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Having compassion for it doesn’t mean you are identifying with it unless you say it does. You “destroy” the ego through love. If that’s the way you want to look at it. I like to look at it as lessening it and strengthening my connection to Source and intuition. Great acknowledigng here.
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I can relate!
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Karen Haradem posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
My biggest takeaway from the call today was realizing that a lot of the reason I’m not opening my heart is because I’m afraid of the unknown, not being accepted, hearing things I don’t want to hear, and not being in control of the outcome. I know that wasn’t something that we discussed in detail, but as I was reading the worksheet and Bev was…[Read more]
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Ooooh, nice “a heart doesn’t open to a heart that isn’t open in return”. Not sure if that’s a common phrase but I know I’ve never heard it before. Totally lands with me though. I 100% hide behind that excuse. Karen, I so appreciate your process and your awareness, your vulnerability and willingness to share. And I resonate with so much of it…[Read more]
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You are welcome!
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This is exactly what the worksheet requested…that you allow and receive any messages that stand in the way of living with an open heart for yourself. Really good allowing, receiving and listening. You are a natural!
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
Thank you, Jane! Sending that support right back at ya.
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
Thanks, Bev. The call was so helpful.
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
Tami, I can complete relate to creating a space to hold truth and hold sad emotions. That is the space I am on at the moment. Still learning to hold them and not give in to anger or power. Thank you for sharing 🙂
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Karen Haradem posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
I’m caught up on the most recent calls and the last week of the worthiness calls. So, the first call about unfinished business was a lot of information. I will need some time to think more about my unfinished business. I know that I can “feel” some unfinished business in my life, especially the last year, yet I also know that I am healing and…[Read more]
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Thank you for sharing yourself here. When I read about your confusion, something popped up around witnessing if it’s your sadness and grief or someone else’s. I picked up that you may be picking up other people’s emotions and carrying the burden for them. Not sure if that resonates, just thought I would mention it if it’s worth exploring for…[Read more]
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Thanks, Bev. The call was so helpful.
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Supporting you through your discovering, Karen!
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Thank you, Jane! Sending that support right back at ya.
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
Thanks, Tami!
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
I’ll be there!
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
Thanks, Wes! I was thinking the same thing. It’s a sign of my growth.
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Karen Haradem posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Yesterday when I was out running errands I observed something interesting about myself and what I was feeling. I felt like everyone around me was relaxed and authentic, while I felt like I was not able to do the same. It was a feeling of not being able to be okay as I am. Like I was doing something wrong and I definitely had that feeling of not…[Read more]
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Where you are is more than ok Karen. Love your awareness. It’s a feeling I’m extremely familiar with when I’m around others. And I think it’s a great sign of growth that you’re able to identify where you feel the anxiety in your body.
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Thanks, Wes! I was thinking the same thing. It’s a sign of my growth.
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Karen, Glad you are here and sending compassion as you are uncovering what wants to be known. I get the shoulding on self. Glad to see you in the circle.
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Thanks, Tami!
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Karen Haradem posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Hi everyone! I’m way behind but I worked on some things tonight. Here’s a list of some of my judgments. Also, I realized tonight after reading some of your shares that my unfinished business that I need to work on the most right now is resolving the relationship with my brother whom I haven’t spoken to in over five years.
My judgments:
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Great start! And know this space here for you when you need it. How do you judge yourself for how you interact? What is it that you say to yourself? What are the needs that you aren’t meeting for yourself? What do you say to yourself about not working enough? These questions will lead you to a deeper level of judgment that needs to be resolved.…[Read more]
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Great list Karen. Wishing you much growth as you resolve your unfinished business.
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
That’s awesome!
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago
Bev, I think it’s an internal boundary that I need to set. Things outside of me are affecting things inside of me. That boundary is important to me because when I don’t set it, whatever is happening is affecting me and my ability to live my life.
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Karen Haradem posted a new activity comment 6 years, 6 months ago
Tami, so glad it helped. Yes, one of the things I’ve learned (and grieved over) is that I carried a weight of shame for so long that the reason my parents struggled was because of me and I tried hard to be more perfect so they would “get better.” When, in fact, it was just that their struggles that were totally unrelated to me affected their…[Read more]
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Karen, I am witnessing you telling your truth of goodness and doing the work to belong to you. Personal Agency apart from Mom and Dad’s process. I wish a class in school was taught at an early age that we don’t have to carry parent’s unfinished business. As young’ins we just knew to absorb without any protection. And here we are today in this ci…[Read more]
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So admire your knowledge of yourself and your intuition Karen. Supporting you in being more and more at peace.
Thank you, Wes!
I continue to love hearing you step into your own. It’s fantastic. Love how you aren’t picking up other people’s projections anymore or as much. We are here to support you so know you can share as little or as much as you like. Giving you a great big virtual hug, if you are okay with hugs, lol!
Yes…lol…I will take a hug! Thank you.
Karen, I am glad that you say “I choose to handle it this way”. Feels like self trust as you navigate your health care. Sending prayers as you care for you.
Thank you, Tami!