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Bev Sartain posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago
Today’s been a bit of a challenging day. It’s an Air day according to my moon planner and these days can be header for me. Also, my husband is having a mental health challenge right now and that’s been a bit more difficult than usual. Another aunt passed away a few days ago and it’s really effected him negatively. He’s going through a lot of loss and grief as he’s lost 3 family members in the last 5 months. It’s a lot to go through. I’m doing my best to be loving and supportive and help him put his own support team in place.
Sending you love and a virtual hug if you would like one. Grief seems to stop us all right in our tracks, doesn’t it? It definitely has it’s own timetable. Supporting you and holding a space for you, Bev.
Thank you so much! It feels good to have a place to come and just say that things aren’t okay all the time. I’m okay with not being okay. Yet people around me fight. It’s such a weird thing to “help” other people and then witness how you can’t help some of those closest to you.
You have had a week of pouring out, may you be filled back up in the days to come.
I totally agree. I’ve been in the “it’s okay not to be okay” place for awhile, but I have family members and coworkers who are fighting it and me over the way I choose to live. Their response to everything is “it’s GREAT, it’s WONDERFUL” pretty much all day long…lol. I just keep saying I love them and accept them and their choices, but I’m my own person and this is what I want. It’s a daily battle, that’s for sure.
This is a wonderful place to share what is. Sending healing vibes to your husband as he navigates the losses. You are held and supported by the Universe. May provision meet both you and your husband right where you are.
He got to a “religious trauma” today which feels really big for him and was a great insight.
I am glad he can name it, externalizing is such an important part of the process.
Here to listen and support you, sending lots of love!!
I feel so loved by you all. Thank you!